Try to Find a Marriage Date
To obtain a marriage record for an ancestor, you need a marriage date. Here are several ways to find a marriage date.
1. Common Ways to Find a Marriage Date
This date could come from a family story, a family bible, or a saved obituary. The accuracy of a marriage date could vary. A family story or an obituary could have an incorrect date. The date in a family bible or a marriage index should be more accurate.
2. Alternate Ways to Find a Marriage Date
If you do not have a family story, a family bible, or an obiturary, then the next best place to look is in a marriage index or to search for an obituary. Here are some options.
Option 1: Search online marriage indexes
Option 2: Search for an obituary
3. A Way to Estimate a Marriage Date: Census Records
If you are unsuccessful using the above options, then you could try census records. Census records, at best, can give only an approximate date. When that is the case, the marriage year could vary by a year. U.S. Federal Censuses for 1850, 1860, 1870, and 1880 had a column to indicate whether the person had married within the year. But for most of us who had ancestors living at the time, this is pretty inadequate since it covers only ten percent of the possible years. The 1900 and 1910 Federal Census asked the number of years in the present marriage. That is pretty good and may vary by only one year. The 1930 Federal Census asked for the age at first marriage and the 1940 Federal Census asked the same question in the supplemental section. If your ancestor's marriage date is not in a census, then you could calculate an approximate marriage date based on the year of birth of the first born child in the census. Since most government agencies will search a range of years, that might work for you.
Use the Marriage Date to Obtain a Marriage Record or Certificate
Once you have a marriage date, you can request a marriage record. This may be online, but if it isn't, then you should contact the county or state depending on if or when the state started keeping this information at the state level. If you do not know the exact year your ancestor married, most government agencies will search only a ten-year period for each request. So it would be good to narrow the time period at much as possible before requesting a search.
- Vitalrec.com has dates for when marriage records were kept by state or county.
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